sorry to hear bout ur tragedies. A freakin Durango left a nasty mark on mine a few weeks ago and i still cant cope with the ugly mark. It was hit hard right on the passenger door on the driver side so I see it everytime I go near the car. I went to a few body shops and they gave me quotes between 350-500 w/ painting the primer and matching the body color. I cant afford that. Even if i want to use my insurance company i have to write a check for $250 n they cover the rest

. They consider this as a collision rather than a hit and run. A hit and run is only $50 outta my pocket but being dicks they are, they wont consider this a hit and run. I went and argued with them for the definition of "collision", well guess who lost even if he was rite.
Sorry to vent, I saw this thread and it brought back them horrible memories (j/k). Anywayz to answer ur question, fixing those dents is gonna cost some major mulla. Depending on ur insurance company, they might help u out. The Dent King or those walmart kits work sometimes. I read some threads and got mix answers. It worked for some people and not for others so I guess its up to u to take the risk and spend the money.