Alright, here goes...
First I just hose the entire car off with a gentle spray to loosen all the dirt and get rid of the dust, then I use Mother's car wash gel and a wash mitt to wash the entire car, including inside the wheel wells and the wheels and tires. After rinsing the entire vehicle off, I dry it using a few of those leather chomoise towels. I then go to the front of the car and get all the water out from under the headlights, then I use paper towels to get all that water out of the sideview mirrors. Then I open all the doors and wipe the dust and excess water out of all of the door jambs and door handles. then I open the trunk and wipe all the water out of the drain. The rear valance also tends to hold alot of water as well as the license plate, so I dry those those thoroughly as well. After the entire car is dry I use Meguiar's Gold Class wax on all painted surfaces and buff it off using a 100% cotton terry cloth towel. On the windows I use Stoner's Invisible Glass inside and out. It may take a few applications, but Invisible Glass works very well. I also ctake the time to clean the sideview mirrors with Invisible Glass. I just use regular car wash on the wheels, but if I were to recommend a product it would be Meguiar's Hot Rims, it has worked well for me in the past. I use Eagle One Tire Wet on the tires, I spray it on a towel and wipe it on to the tires to prevent overspray onto the body. For any small scratches I find, I use Meguiar's Scratch-X, which I think works awesome.
As for the interior, I use Armor All, which is a classic, it works best and I haven't found anything better out there. On the plastic parts of the interior I usually just use soap and water. As for the seats, I just vacuum them, I'm afraid to scrub them.
These are my methods, for a quick-detail I use Meguair's Qwik Detailer, works great, gets rid of water marks or light dust.
-Jonathan